one day with a close friend of mine, we pretended for straight 30 secs that our red hot desire just came true --- a lot shrieking and tears and jumping -- it was incredible!  we did this exercise to match the vibration of where we want to be - in other words - we pretended we already have what we have been asking for.  it was unbelievable.  it's like, now that I have it, what's next?  so that's how it feels. now on to the next.