You deflect what you dont attract

Does that make sense to you? What I mean by this is, Law of Attraction means "like attracts like".  If you are a happy, good person --- everything unlike that, you will repel --- people, things, circumstances will veer away from you if they happen to be unlike you or your vibration or point of attraction.

So when you break up with someone, that could be the reason.  When some people you thought are your friends and no matter how much you try they just "don't care' -- that means they are not in the same point of attraction as you are.

I really really like to just attract good things into my life and I want all my desires to manifest and happen -- I want happiness and love, and so everything and everyone around me is a measure of that, of how close or far  I am to what I want -- or if I am already there.

Happy dreams everyone ~

ESP Game

My son and I are still playing the ESP game and we often play it before bedtime, when I lay down with him and spend cuddle time before he goes to bed and fall asleep.

We would guess the color we are thinking, and he is so good at knowing/guessing the color that I give him.

I would tell him to quiet his mind, think of nothing, and then I will tell him that I will give him a color.  After I do that, he should ask " What color did mommy give me" in his mind, and the very first color that he thinks of is the answer.  So far it has always been a match!

We also did  variety, we guessed numbers instead of colors.
It was not perfect but pretty close.

For instance, my son says five when he sees the number two -- he is still confused between the 5 and 2.
Tonight, I silently gave me him two,and he asked, did you give me 5?  Hahaha !  I told him "very close, I think you may be thinking two but since you are confused with the figure you thought I gave you 5".  When it was my turn to guess, he gave me a 9 and I guessed 6, pretty close eh?

We will keep practicing --- really my goal here is to teach him to develop and trust his intuition.

Much love to all of you!

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Using LOA During Meal Time

I have been actively using LOA in my eating habits and practices, and I want to share with you how I do it.

1. When I am hungry, I think " I want something really good for me and my body, something I am going to have fun eating, something delicious, something healthy, something that will make me feel good and make me feel my body still looks good".
2. I would just repeat thinking that, and then I go think about what I want to eat --- and there will be ideas and options that will pop into my head.
3. I pick the one(s) that feel the happiest.
4. I choose the food, I bless the food, and then I eat it, and then I THANK God for it.
5. I make peace with my food and just enjoy it.

When I do this, I really end up eating healthily and do it in a very easy manner.

Today, I attracted 1 cup of boiled spinach (whoohoo) and broiled crusted Tilapia.  I typically can't eat meals without rice, but today was such a great meal!  Spinach and fish, how cool is that!  Also recently, I am eating and having water or tea as my drink and having a great meal!  That is awesome for me you know.

So people, just make peace with what you eat -- bless it, think healthy, and see how this improves your food choices and your feelings about food.  When you want to eat something that you think is not healthy, well -- it is tricky because even before you make the choice to eat, you already chose to think it is not healthy -- why do that right?  You are only attracting a vibration in which your body will process that food as unhealthy food.

It is all making sense to me now --- I really eat for fun, I don't see food bad or good, I don't judge food, I appreciate it and thank it for giving me so much good feelings.  When I do that I maintain the body that I love to see, a body that I am happy with.

Happy eating!!

Connecting to Source/God/Inner Being

You hear people say that it is good to be connected to God/Source and have divine guidance.  But how do you that?  How do they do that?  There are a lot of techniques and sharing around this subject and you really have to pick the one that is closest to your heart and what makes sense to you or what is meaningful to you.  However, even before you make the so-called connection, there is one thing that you should have worked on first --- and that is the BELIEF and ACKNOWLEDGEMENT that there is this Source/Pure Energy/God/Higher Being --- without this you cannot really go to the step of connecting.  You have to work on that first.

So in this post, I want to share how I do the connection.  You need to understand though that I have had the realization that connecting isn't really nothing new to me.  I have been connecting all along from early years of my life.  It is just recently that I am getting really educated that what I am doing is actually connecting.

Here's how I do it:

Because I already believe and acknowledge, to connect, I put my mind into a sort of state of quiet, and then I "invoke" as follows. The words change from time to time but the feeling is still the same:

• Thank you God for everything today.  I want to be divinely guided and connected in all that I do, say, and think, and I thank you so much for allowing me to be connected to you. I want to be with you all day today guiding my every second of this life.  Guardian Angels and Spiritual Guides, please allow me to reach out to you and connect with you all throughout the day today.  I thank you for this gift and blessing of allowing me access to your higher intelligence.I am thankful for all the wonderful interactions today and all the abundance coming my way, all the good things aligned to manifest in my life today.  Thank you so much for the great news you are giving me today and all the love I have today.

And then I just do a lot of thanking and gratitude, every step I make.   I do my connection anytime, while brushing my teeth, while driving, while walking, ANYTIME.  I also bless anything I do; when I wash my face, I say "please bless this water and soap touching my face so they provide to my utmost good".  When I eat, I bless my food, when I am talking to someone, I bless that someone and ask God to bless that someone with so much abundance; when I am driving, I am blessing and praying for all the cars passing me by, etc.

And here are samples of when I use the connection all day:

• Before a meeting, I thank and ask God to guide the meeting and pre-pave it to be a successful, easy, happy meeting
• I pause and ask for guidance before I answer any question asked of me (I don't see things big or small, everything is the same size because I have the Divine guiding me, size does not matter).

And how do I know I am connected?  Well, for me, I go with my "hunch", which is really our intuition, and when you pray or connect, your intuitions are really guided by higher intelligence.

And another important step is to be THANKFUL.  After asking and after that thing has transpired or happen, thank God/Source/Universe/Angels.  When you thank, you are aligning all the stars in the skies to make your decisions and action result to good things.

I never ever worry anymore about any decision or choice I make because I have this knowing that everything is always working out for me, no  matter what.  If you have that belief in your system, if you have ingrained that into yourself, you have a happy, really happy-to-the core life.

With so much love from me to you~

Update on Reading Silva Method book

I am currently on Chapter Four and struggling to follow the instructions in the book.  When I ponder on it, the message that comes to mind (which I believe is my inner being talking to me, or God/Universe) that I am actually familiar with meditation already and that I do it anytime I want to and have success doing it.

When I really think about it, I am always in deep thought, whether I am at home doing chores, or driving or walking -- when I am not working my day job, I am always thinking.  Even when I was a child, I would pull a chair, sit outside, look at the sunset for the longest time, and think and ask the universe many many questions.

Visualization is nothing new to me too.  What is new that I am practicing now is guided, intentional visualization --- I am using it to pre-pave my future and create my reality.  When something I want happens, I am no longer surprised -- I am now just purely THANKFUL and GRATEFUL because I knew all along it was coming, I just didn't know when, and when it happens, I acknowledge the generosity of God and Universe for giving it to me. And it always happens in a much better manner than I have asked for or expected it to happen.

I will keep reading the book, but every time I attempt to read it, ideas and thoughts prompt me to either blog or write on my journal.  I will just go with the flow!

With so much love to all of you ~.

A lot of things making sense now

I grew up in a parochial school and community and was really drawn to all the teachings and was very serious about "following" all of them.  I am writing this with good intention of sharing with you things that I have learned in life that make MORE sense now compared to when I was just basing everything on religion's practices and rules.  So here goes:

RULES -- I believe in Jesus but I don't want to advocate the mantra that we are sinners.  We are a GIFT to the world.  We make mistakes to learn and expand and grow and we should not be punished for those mistakes.  Life is meant to be celebrated and live joyfully and I'd rather celebrate my realizations and enlightenment as opposed to beating myself up because religion is telling me I am a sinner by doing or not doing something.

FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS/HEART -- happiness is where your heart is.  Doing what you are passionate about, pursuing something that makes your heart sing and joyful will lead you to more happiness.  When you are happy everything else falls into place, things continue to work out for you --- and your negative feelings let you know if you are getting off the happy path.

BE THE LIGHT -- When you are pure inside, when you feel genuine joy, peace, and calm within you, that shows in your persona and whole being -- and everyone around you will feel that even without you exerting any effort.  It takes time to practice that and becoming like that person, but once you have achieved that state of being connected to God/Source/Pure Energy, that no matter what happens around you, you are not shaken, you know everything is well and working out for you -- you become a light to this world.  You inspire and uplift people just with your presence.

Journalling

You must have heard about the vision board tool, a tool that you can use to visualize what you want to manifest.  I tried that once and twice and does not seem to stick at this time.  So as I was thinking about what effective tool can I use that is uniquely mine --- an idea popped into my head:  JOURNAL.

Yes folks --- when I want or desire something, I write it down on a journal.
I write it with all the positive energy, and feeling that I would have when it is mine or like it is already manifested, and I doodle things around it, and feel the happiness of just having the thought of it.

Try it and witness your desires manifest ~.

Happy LOA-ing and manifesting!

Hoola Hoop Aternative

I was about to start my night time exercise when I thought of something (LOA in action people!) --- I stated imagining I have the hoola hoop and did the hoola sans the hoop!  Great workout!

LOA-ing Time

My work entails me to have meetings almost all day long and almost every day of the week.  After 6 hours of meeting, I get really drained and because of this setup, I have to spend time at night checking emails that I don't have time to process during the day.  After 5 days I am pooped out.

This week I have been thanking the universe for productivity and free time first thing in the morning when I wake up.  So far it is working!!!  Monday bought me time to do creative work, and today, I was so pooped out, my meetings cancelled one after another and I was able to leave work early!

Thank you SO MUCH!

Hoopnotica

I have been thinking of ways to exercise in a fun way, and not do it like it is a chore every night before bedtime.  I am a working mother with a very happy, hyper, energetic 5 year-old boy and finding time to exercise is a little challenging.

And so LOA in action brought this to me:  http://hoopnotica.com/shop.html

Whoa!  I think I am going ask hubby  to buy the travel hoop as a mother's day gift to me.
YES!

Attracting Happiness Exercise

I have read somewhere that whatever you focus on, it only takes 17seconds before another like thought comes into the picture or joins your thinking/thought.   That is LOA in action. In this post I want to show you how I use LOA in attracting happiness and lifting my spirits when I need it.

When I want to be happy or happier, I think all of the things that make me feel very happy, like this:

- I am happiest when the house is clean (I imagine a very very clean house and linger with that feeling for a little bit)

- I am happiest when beauty surrounds me
- I am happiest when I can buy things that I want and desire
- I am happiest when I am with my family relaxing and laughing and spending a really good time with each other
.... and so on and so forth.

When you do this and put energy to feel the emotion as you recount the moments or things that make you happy, you not only gradually feel better but you actually moved things in the Universe to align things for you so that all those like things that will make you feel happy will manifest in your life.

With so much love...~

We are all one Energy Stream, but what makes the separations or distinguishes the differences is perspective. You are a unique and individual perspective.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Los Angeles, CA on Sunday, January 31st, 1999 # 41

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

We would never go to court for any reason, because that is a physical act of exclusion as big as we've ever seen it, and we've never seen anybody ultimately benefit from that.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Los Angeles, CA on Sunday, February 2nd, 1997 # 40

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

It is of great value for you to give your conscious attention to what you specifically want, otherwise you can be swept up by the influence of that which surrounds you. You are bombarded by the stimulation of thought. And so, unless you are setting forth the thought that is important to you, you can be stimulated by another's thought that may or may not be important to you.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from "The Law of Attraction, The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham" # 39

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Whatever you're thinking about is literally like planning a future event. When you're worrying, you are planning. When you're appreciating you are planning...What are you planning?

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Silver Spring, MD on Saturday, April 19th, 1997 # 38

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Your Inner Being likes to skip and laugh and think about things; your Inner Being likes to offer compliments and feel appreciation and contemplate something that is not fully understood and then feel the understanding come forth. Your Inner Being is just like your frisky two-year old who is eager for life experience. To meet up with your Inner Being just be more like that now.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Sacramento, CA on Saturday, March 15th, 2003 # 37

Our Love,
Esther (and Abraham and Jerry)

Laughing it Out

Oh honey --- when you are feeling down --- stop whatever you  are doing..
breathe in and out...
close your eyes ...
stay still ...
and just breathe
and use LOA to lift your feeling.
say:
"I want to feel better, I want to feel better, I want to feel better"
"I'm feeling better"
"All is well"
"Everything is working out for me"
"I have the Universe backing me"
"I let go of this negativity"
"I'm ok"
"I'm ok"
"Whatever this is I delete this energy"
"I am beautiful, I am loved, I am a gift to the world"

You are loved

I want to tell you something that I believe is a message to me tonight from God/Source --- regardless you are Buddhist, Atheist, Christian, Catholic -- religion does not matter.  We are loved.  We should not feel sinful.  We should feel beautiful, and loved, and accepted, and belonged -- and God/Source loves unconditionally.  Love is unconditional and amazing and non-judgmental and that is whoTrue Light/Source/God is.

Is your heart open to your blessings

There is so much blessings everywhere!  If you open your heart, you are surrounded by so MUCH blessings.  The people you love, the people who love you, the beautiful you who is a gift to this world, the air, the food, the house, everything is a blessing.  Once you switch and look around you and acknowledge it to be full of blessing --- your world is going to change and a downpour of blessings will be an everyday event in your life!

A brand new day! Past is past! Now is what matters!!!

Color Game

I played a color game with my son tonight after I read about Jose Silva's Mind Control book that ESP is possible to develop.

So tonight, I prepped him early evening and told him about quieting the mind.  I told him to be quiet, close your eyes, and just breathe.  I was so impressed because he actually did it.

And then bed time came --- we have this thing where after saying bed time prayers, Daddy lays down with him, and then it is my turn to lay down with him.

After the routine "Let's pray to God for this person", and "Let's thank God for this", I told him that I want to play a game.  I asked him to quiet his mind, I thought of color, and when I was ready to give it to him, I told him, "are you ready, there you go, I gave you the color.  What color did I give you?"

First Try:  I gave him green, and he said I gave him "Yellow and Blue"  Yay!!!
Second try:  I gave him blue, and he said, "You gave me something that starts with the letter b....blue?"  YAY!!!
Third time, he gave me a color: I guessed it, it was green. SUPER!!!

WOW!!!
He did not want to go to bed,it was getting late, he just wanted to play the game over and over.  So we did it one more time ~
Fourth time:  I gave him purple, and he said " Hmn, did you give me p-p-p- purple?"

Man, my 5 year-old is amazing!~

Manifesting Anything You Want

Here's a blog post by Christie Marie Sheldon on Manifesting ANYTHING YOU WANT!

http://www.loveorabove.com/blog/how-to-manifest/

Learning how to manifest on purpose is easier than you think. In fact, the real secret is, once you learn how, it’s almost ridiculously easy! The following ‘rules’ can be applied to anything you desire to bring into your life.

1. Take the stress out of it. Why take manifesting so seriously? You already know the value of hard work, but you don’t have to make such an big adult deal out of manifesting. Think of it as a game, as a pure game of pretend like you did when you were a child. Approach manifesting from the perspective of play, delight, fun… to take your needy, desperate, fearful and lack-based vibes out of the equation. A child’s imagination knows no bounds. Unfortunately, as adults we have placed some pretty hefty limitations on our imaginations, for no good reason except that other people said so – for example, “you can’t get ahead without a college education” or “it takes money to make money” or “it’s not what you know but who you know.” Says who? Tell that nonsense to the many self-made millionaires who started out with no education, no money, nothing but a lot of imagination and desire. Try this:

1. Pretend you don’t need it. Whatever you want is purely for your enjoyment. It’s the icing on the cake, a little extra to make your life sweeter. But you don’t need it.

2. Believe what you see in your mind. Whatever you want already exists in your imagination, doesn’t it? Therefore it is just as real as any other idea you have ever had that came to fruition. Play with the belief that what you want is already waiting for you. You’ve placed the order, now you’re on your way to pick it up. What have you got to lose? After all, you don’t “need” what you desire, it’s just for fun. It’s all pretend!

3. Believe in the power of your thoughts and emotions. You know how good it feels to have what you want. Embody that feeling and infuse your visualization with its powerful vibration. It’s all good. Relax into it and have fun.

4. Believe in the ‘impossible’. You’re just playing, and in ‘imagination land’ everything is possible and you know it. You don’t question, you just know. Let that knowing transcend any “but” thoughts your logical mind comes up with! Have fun with this and leave the logical mind at home. This is about using the power of thoughts, emotions and your intentions only. You don’t need to worry if or how it will manifest. It’s all play.

5. Throw yourself into it. A child puts him- or herself completely into their imaginary world. Put yourself in yours!

6. Don’t worry, be happy! Positive vibrations attract positive vibrations. Most of us think, “I’ll be happy when… (I find that special someone, land that deal, get a new house, etc.)…” sure you will, but will your current energetic vibration attract those things you want?

• Are you vibrating “I don’t think I deserve that, even though it would be really nice…” instead of “I’m so happy, and more goodness is on its way!”
• Which one is better: “I’m in love with this dream, but I don’t know how to make it happen!” or “I’m in love with this dream and I just love how it’s all coming together for me!”

Believe in your vision! It is already real!

Worry, fear, anxiety, doubt or resistance in the form of limiting beliefs pollute and dilute your vibration. Check out the Love or Above Spiritual Toolkit and learn how happiness will make you a magnet for what you desire. Fill yourself with positive emotions. Fill every cell with love, happiness, joy, peace… and let that light, bright energy radiate outward to attract what you want! The more you amplify positive emotions, the higher and more powerful your vibe will be!

7. See what you want to see. Visualization is a powerful vibration booster. Physical reality isn’t far behind the wonderful ideas you plant in your imagination – IF you water them with love, enthusiasm, unwavering belief and lots of happiness.

8. Just for fun, imagine it really is this easy to manifest anything you want. We’ve all been brought up believing that hard work is the only way to get what we want, but that’s just not true. Money is just a means of exchange and if you put out the right vibrations, you will attract the situations that call for inspired (read: joyful) action, and then you’ll get the results you desire. It’s important to hold your visualization for as long as you can without any mental or emotional interruption: aim for at least half a minute several times a day, consistently, for a month or so.

9. Upgrade your beliefs. Many people also have a bottleneck of positive energy when it comes to money – usually rooted in beliefs of scarcity and unworthiness. But since money is nothing but a number and a means of exchange… do you believe in the scarcity of the things you would purchase with that money? Hmmm….. you don’t, do you? Do you believe that you are not worthy of having food, shelter, nice things… well, there you might have a bit of trouble so I encourage you to have a chat – a long, deep chat – with your Higher Self and your angels and guides. They will steer you in the right direction of believing that you are a Divine being who IS – absolutely – worthy of what you desire.

Inspirational Quotes

I am so tired tonight but before I retire to bed and do a lot of energy summoning and visualization of my desires, here's something for all of you from the bottom of my heart.

Sweet Dreams and Keep on Believing!!!

Next Book: The Child Whisperer by Carol Tuttle

I can't wait to get my hands on this book: The Child Whisperer by Carol Tuttle

Although I feel that I have a very very loving relationship with my son, I am still so willing to keep learning on how to improve and maintain this beautiful relationship.

If you don't want to pay the full price, Amazon.com offers cheaper prices.  Honestly I buy a ton of used books and they serve me the same purpose and quality.

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Love you All!